Slow progression dating relationship serious
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Oh my god, where did you come from, most perfect person I have ever met?! /Wait, you listen to Dave Matthews Band and you're openly admitting that?
But there is no standard progression of first = date hug, second date = kiss, and so on. We kissed on the third date but didn't do anything sexual for 4-5 weeks. Really, I'm a sex-on-the-first-date kinda girl. But only if that's the kind of person I'm with, as well.
Sometimes you go out to a nice dinner and just say good bye without any physical contact, and that's fine. If not, then we can go slow- its about the person not the progress :)Here's the minimum and maximum from my experience: Minimum: 1st date - all "bases" covered within 3 hours Maximum: french kissing on the first date, still haven't moved beyond that point four weeks later (also by far the least experience woman I've dated)Start with "this is not pressure; in fact, this is my attempt to avoid pressuring you.
There is no 'general timeline' for sexual progress in relationships.
Some people have sex on the first date, and others don't have sex until their wedding night. That being said, I'll give you the timeline for my relationship because hopefully it will help you realise that all relationships differ.
In each case it was basically whatever the girl felt comfortable doing. For example, my current girlfriend gave me a bj on our first date and we had sex the night after. It beats the hell out of being baffled when someone pushes your hand away or squirms out from under you and you're left not knowing what to do next.
But it sounds like you may live at gone since you are going on actual dates.
In that case, after 2 months it should definitely happen.
Now, unless there are outside considerations, I would expect sex within one month at the very latest.
Not saying that if after a month I would just up and end the relationship, but it would be worth a very serious conversation. More likely, anywhere from first date to 1-2 weeks seem normal depending on frequency of dates and general chemistry. I think it'd be kind of silly to have a schedule.
My boyfriend and I(female) have been dating for two years and we are each other's first romantic and sexual partner First date: making out and feeling each other up. Third date-first year: we spent a lot of time doing oral, fingering, etc..