Not dating but not just friends
Let us save ourselves from this new breed I call “The Confused Devils.” am i his girlfriend am i his girlfriend or friend am i just a friend or more am i more than a friend breakup friends with benefits he calls me a friend but treats me like his girlfriend help me my heart is aching the confused breed Dedicated author, loyal blogger, avid reader, poetess, lyricist, music composer, vocalist, seeker of spiritual purpose of self-existence, humanly philosophical, supportive feminist and a full-time dreamer. Every relationship is different, but I take my love life very seriously.She’s not your girlfriend yet, but you’re not just friends either, so what are you? I won’t judge you for the way you date, I just don’t want to be a part of it.I have my own standards and when it comes to dating, I take it one man at a time.DIANA Friends are like an old shirt That always makes you smile JEFF It makes you feel all fuzzy inside But it gets dirty once in a while DIANA A friend does to you As you do unto them Like Jesus recommends BOTH And we want to be good boys and girls So that`s why we`re just friends` With benefits DIANA We each do our own thing `Cause we`re not dating and that`s fine JEFF But every couple of evenings Our things will intertwine DIANA If you`re friends I guess JEFF A little caress DIANA Or cunnilingus doesn't cross the line BOTH No!
BOTH People say this way doesn`t work But, I know that`s not so JEFF If I suck, I wanna know BOTH We will keep this our little secret Why explain what can`t be explained` We don`t need a defense `Cause this all makes perfect sense In fact, it`d be stranger if we abstained We won`t let this get weird JEFF I`ll stand hard DIANA I`ll stay resolved JEFF I won't take you for granted DIANA I won`t get emotionally involved BOTH I have lots of friendships But this one transcends All the ones in which I don`t get laid And that`s why we`re just friends` With benefits Hmmm`.
Just because we’re not official doesn’t mean we’re nothing.
If we’re dating or even just “hanging out” then we’re obviously something.
Maybe I’m a little old fashioned, but I prefer to date one guy at a time and for the guy I’m dating to do the same.
Maybe you’re not officially my boyfriend, but that doesn’t mean you should be seeing other people.
That’s how good they are at their worst selves (if you know what I mean).