Example of information in the left hand pane divorced dating
So, when I told her doctor what was going on, that led to a bipolar diagnosis and a round of treatment that eventually didn’t work.
Then, I had to intervene again with her treatment and get her on something else.
I’ve volunteered for travel for work to get some distance.
She went off again today and I’ve got long emails in my box from the whole thing.
Now that she’s better again or trying to be or whatever you want to call it, I can’t release and trust her again, because if she does hurt me again, I won’t have anything to pick myself up with. No matter what she does, I have that promise to myself.
I’ve had to really try hard to stick myself to that promise and she’s actually helped me keep it by being worse.
At first, she was diagnosed with ADHD which is much more common than bipolar.
I can’t believe she’d ever do that.” It’s a two-faced situation.Now, she’s rebounding and going through the good phase of the cycle, now, she’s medicated, it’s going to be a lot for me to break that promise to myself and remain with her.I don’t feel guilty about wanting to divorce and I’m not even angry with her.I made a decision to never be vulnerable to her, never be intimate, because she’s taken a lot of things that she’s known about me and the closeness and it’s hurt me in her bipolar episodes.That was the one thing I could do was not let her be any closer.
In getting to your decision, it’s always helpful to learn as much as you can about your spouse’s condition – typical symptoms, treatment, on-going concerns and long-term prognosis.